Civility

Paul Tripp has said, 

An idolatrous heart will produce idol words, words that serve the idol that grips us.  A local pastor recently advised that if we describe ourselves by a label along with the term ‘Christian’ or Follower of Christ, we may be developing an idol in our heart. We should be known more for our love, character, and compassion far more than what we are against. 

“And may the Lord cause you to increase and overflow with love for one another and for everyone, just as we do for you. May he make your hearts blameless in holiness before our God and Father at the coming of our Lord Jesus with all his saints. Amen.”

‭‭1 Thessalonians‬ ‭3:12-13‬ ‭CSB‬‬

It’s so tempting to join a discussion filled with strong opinions which often leads to a gossip like slam fest.  The temptation to join sides on an issue is almost a political campaign strategy, rather than a goal to build unity or  to demonstrate good character.  Francis Chan’s book Until Unity is a difficult read because he steps on my toes.  One excerpt states “ Who decided that emphasizing doctrine was mature and emphasizing love was immature? ,(  p132).  When we equate maturity with knowledge it’s easy to justify a life of acquiring knowledge then finding fault with others. The two greatest commands are to love God and love others (Matt 22:36-40).  I have much to learn.